Thursday, 15 December 2016

Mistakes, I've made a few

Hi!

An article I put up on LinkedIn today. 
A "something to think about whilst you're at work" post this time.

Over the past few weeks, the subject of negative focus has lifted its head again as it often does when we all get tired and are looking toward that well earned, well deserved Christmas and New Year summer break. 

Pina collada's, walks in the rain. 
Y'know what I'm saying.

When I say "negative focus" I'm not talking about a general boiling cauldron of troubled culture in any work place or anything like that. No, not even close. 

This negativity occurs where we start to focus on problems and mistakes much more than the positive aspects of what we do, how we do it and what we could do.
I've said this a few times in past posts (see "Got Anxiety? Read This") in an attempt to change our mindset, especially at this time of year. 
This picture is one I found on the inter-web quite a while back. 
It's so good that I began incorporating its lesson into any teaching/coaching sessions here and off site too, where valid.

Yes. You read that right. Made no mistakes? Then what limits did you push?  

See, mistakes are important. If you never make any, how do you learn what works and what doesn't? 
If you're not making mistakes, how are you really challenging the things you do? 

Answer? It's likely you're not.

A boss of mine has asked on many occasions "what's the worst thing that can happen?" whenever someone has suggested an idea. 
I learnt after the first few times she asked me that this question seemed to serve three purposes. 

1. Will anyone die if we do it? 

2. Will anyone die if we don't do it? 
Legitimate concerns. But there was also a third reason.

3. Not only does this simple question serve as an immediate impact consideration assessment, but its also a great challenge to throw (some) caution to the wind and to take a chance. 

In this simple question (which I urge you to adopt by the way) my boss was also asking for the person concerned, to try. To take a calculated risk. To risk making a mistake. 
But of course, as long as no one was going to die.

And this ladies and gentlemen, this is how a business can move forward.

Please consider the Samurai picture and my boss's question. 

If you're looking at a process and see a potential opportunity to make it better, don't you owe it to the business (and yourself) to try to make it better or at the bare minimum, at least talk about it with someone invested in the result?
Yes! Of course you should! 

Innovation is crucial part of any businesses success.
Can you successfully innovate if you don't try anything new? Nope, kinda defeats the word itself.

Quick few questions you should ask yourself. 
1. Are you holding yourself back? 
2. Do you prefer to do the "tried and tested" way because "thats the way we've always done it"? You know it works, its safe. 
3. As a manger or a leader, are you treating any mistakes your staff make like catastrophic cases of pulling us closer to financial ruination?

Considering what you have just read higher up, what would happen if you stop doing that?

We are all guilty of stepping out sometimes when we should be stepping in. 
If you or your staff members are too afraid to take calculated risks or make mistakes just in case you/they embarrass yourself/themselves, then its time to stop that. 

Join me in stepping forward.


Mistakes - when owned and learnt from - can form badges of honour, help you to take the knocks they provide and assist you in growing to be more, to be better. 

We all have big goals ahead of us in 2017 and beyond and its going to take calculated risks and mistakes to learn from, to get there. 

Learning from them and challenging the norms will be the most likely method to push you and your business forward to where you need to go.

Look at the negative focus things differently, starting today. 
Try the new ideas. 

I mean after all...


What's the worst that could happen?

Wednesday, 19 October 2016

Music I'm into at the moment - a playlist

Figured might be cool to share the music I'm into, most of it organised into a playlist for when I'm out on the bike. Great cruising sounds, great vocalists, good to sing along with. 

Then for fun or curiosity, feel free to check out the link on the right hand side under popular posts "My old band recordings plus a new track" - me singing. Bit of rock in that direction too.  

Playlist - in no particular order;

Back from Cali - Slash, featuring Myles Kennedy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgUTKxcC5dA

Ashes Of Eden - Breaking Benjamin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1yTyAh8IA8

Failure - Breaking Benjamin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVIh1MFWDVw

Breakdown - Breaking Benjamin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Spz5oa8UE-4

Saint Cecilia - Foo Fighters 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XjBUBFKb5zY

Space Lord - Monster Magnet 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dscfeQOMuGw

Bullet In My Hand - Redlight King 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1KL5U-fyMc

Wash It All Away - Five Finger Death Punch 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9VFg44H2z8

House Of The Rising Sun - Five Finger Death Punch 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXYIxJScSik

Made To Be Broken - Seven Mary Three  (live - prefer studio version)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHaHrzV7GOE&index=26&list=PLZ_5bDEnailfu6vjnYTrDOAKI9SNB5RIf

Master Of The Universe - Sick Puppies 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mvb6NQozYsE

Blow Up The Outside World - Soundgarden
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sC2GjXMk7i4

Stinkfist - Tool
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07pLGIgyfjw

The Pot - Tool
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2F_hGwD26g

Black Cadillac - Shinedown
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smvwKuqt_qU

State Of My Head - Shinedown
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kv0B-DLtMiM

Cut The Cord - Shinedown
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9itwt_opsvQ

Footsteps (Go Higher) - Pop Evil
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXvkTuMyZpM

Trenches - Pop Evil (a bit glam band but it grows on you)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWdtN7pCZug

Take It All - Pop Evil (even more glam band)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGL2OjmZLhM

Good Man - Devour The Day
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70FI3c2ARKM

I'm A King Bee - The Stone Foxes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvEtts_67AU

Left Hand Free - Alt-J
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRWUoDpo2fo

Red Sun Rising - The Otherside
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1cj2M_Mprw

Figure It Out - Royal Blood
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GHX3lWJxQPA

Little Monster - Royal Blood
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ere2Mstl8ww

My Demons - Starset
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSvOTw8UH6s

Mississippi Queen - Mountain
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qFhM1XZsh6o

Heathens - Twenty One Pilots
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UprcpdwuwCg

Paralyzer - Finger Eleven
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJk6gZuPKRE

Evidence - Faith No More
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lvMNLhJrb0

Ashes To Ashes - Faith No More
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kfq7wHJu21c

Falling To Pieces - Faith No More
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32bdevGClD4

Bulletproof - Shihad/Pacifier
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zftDSYPmh6o

Yeah. Git 'cha rock on already.


More 2016 DGR Photos











Monday, 10 October 2016

The Distinguished Gentleman's Ride - 2016 Tauranga

Hi you! Apologies I haven't posted in a while. Been a bit flat out if I'm honest. Working and charity work.

So the amazing DGR kicked off this Sunday just been (9th Oct 2016), with around 150-200 bikes turning up. We had old-time scooters, bobbers, Harley's, Triumph's, Ducati's, you name it, we even had a bike built from scratch on deck! The dapper level's were high, moustache's were curled up, moustache stickers applied to bike headlights and the comradery of the DGR pack was solid.

Collectively our riders in Tauranga, NZ managed to pull together $14, 049.00 for the charity, NZ collectively raised a whopping $93,178.00 and worldwide we helped generate US$3,542,031.00! 
A legendary result! 
I even managed to take out second place amongst our riders gathering up $1271.00!! Thanks to all who donated and put up with me spamming them on social media.

The ride day itself is something I highly recommend if you're a motorbike owner. The discussions around men's health, suicide prevention and prostate cancer were great to be had. I even had a good 10 minute discussion with a member of the public who just wanted to share his story of going through prostate cancer with me - a humbling talk and another reason why we do this DGR work in the first place. He is thankfully cancer free now, an excellent result.

Riding in the pack - I was lucky enough to be up front for the majority of it - was chilling in a good way. I am sure that people heard us coming around quarter of an hour before we even showed up. As we passed places, windows rattled. We were a very dapper gang of ladies and gents looking to raise awareness for Prostate Cancer and Men's mental health. 

I think we accomplished that. I even had an opportunity to jump on a tourist bus and let the asian tourists just what we were all about, but they were so quick to get off their bus and get up close and personal with the bikes they literally pushed on past me! Was awesome!

Check out a few of the pictures of the day below. 




The boys - Rich, Stefan and I




Workmate Stefan and I again


This guy was one of the nicest guys around, and probably the oldest riding!



The "Red-Band" band who donated their time for free to play the venue! Legendary band!

Front three and organisers of this Tauranga ride - Damian, Myself and Wayne



Front three bikes. (from left) My Ducati, Wayne's Triumph and Damian's Triumph.





Promo picture - Keith, myself and Damian


And then our newspaper interview and article.


So please keep an eye out for DGR 2017 - I'm going to be involved in it for sure!
If you have a bike - I can't suggest enough for you to get involved too! 

#badass #dapperedup #welldressedgang


2016. 

Done. 
Boom.


Wednesday, 10 August 2016

SPONSOR ME!! A great cause, please, every dollar counts.





Please click the link and if you can, donate. Prostate Cancer and Mental Health issues affect so many of your loved ones. It's time to try and do something about it.

So on Sunday the 25th of September, I'm going to don my finest attire and join men and women across the globe in the 2016 Distinguished Gentleman’s Ride to find a cure for Prostate Cancer and to help Men’s Mental Health. 

Over 1,300 men a day die of prostate cancer worldwide, and it’s time for that to end. Your donation will help The Distinguished Gentleman’s Ride reach its goal of $US5 Million to fund research into a cure for a disease that claims far too many gentlemen each year. 

This is the best dressed way to fight prostate cancer and help improve men’s mental health – cheers and thank you!